tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805581586725799107.post4166734780053498868..comments2023-08-16T03:24:46.578-07:00Comments on Not My Hoarding Mother: Mother's Day 2017Lisabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15732537794621527375noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805581586725799107.post-14869983516256236742017-07-04T18:00:35.071-07:002017-07-04T18:00:35.071-07:00Valerie:
Thank you so much. It continues to evol...Valerie:<br /><br />Thank you so much. It continues to evolve, and I feel I am getting closer to a resolution. Thanks for your warm thoughts!<br /><br />EviLisa: <br /><br />((Hugs)) You have been in my thoughts, and I will keep on, keeping on. I think I have had some of the same thoughts about the 'what if' of HM passing before me, and I think as I go lower and lower contact that and her behavior continues to escalate that I am nearly that space of indifference. It may be my saving grace...<br /><br />-LisabethLisabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15732537794621527375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805581586725799107.post-44670605083239111102017-06-08T06:18:38.104-07:002017-06-08T06:18:38.104-07:00I've been avoiding social media pretty hard. ...I've been avoiding social media pretty hard. Mom died. All my life my biggest fear would be that mother would die and my sisters/family would hate me for not grieving appropriately. I was wrong. I was treated with almost royal respect. No. I didn't cry. Neither did her husband of 50 years. As a matter of fact, he removed his wedding band within an hour of her passing AND made a pass at the accountant in the funeral home. Dad is great. My sisters cried and one of the grand babies gave an oscar-worthy performance. But no one said a word to me. That was first week of April. I still haven't cried. Toxic people are truly clueless how little they begin to matter. <br /><br />You take care of yourself. I encourage you to continue to keep away from your mom. I think doing that saved my life. Eat well. Play well. Be healthy. I wish you good health. <br /><br />EviLisaEvilisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05801521785609008415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3805581586725799107.post-51564114675974522592017-05-15T11:26:05.785-07:002017-05-15T11:26:05.785-07:00Good to hear from you. Happy Birthday! Hope all of...Good to hear from you. Happy Birthday! Hope all of the health issues are resolved soon. All the best!Valeriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01895625114035965626noreply@blogger.com